The NYC subway commute, particularly when traveling alone, is usually a sullen, lonely time. Most people just zone out with music, movies, or reading. Here are some ideas for how to love your commute and brighten other peoples’ day.
1. If you have a newspaper, offer the section you’re not reading to a neighboring passenger.
2. Say Hi to at least three people when you enter the subway or sit. Yes, saying Hi to 1 or 2 people is definitely friendly, but 3 Hellos creates community and a warmer atmosphere.
3. Find any excuse to strike up conversation. What do you think of that book you’re reading? I love your shoes, where’d you get them? Oh, what iPhone game is that — any fun?
4. Help a tourist. Tourists are often looking at maps, talking in groups about where to go next, etc. Give them a hand; most of the time they’ll be appreciative.
5. Compliment performers you like. It’s not always necessary to give money — sometimes it’s nice just to give a compliment.
6. Smile! There doesn’t even have to be a reason. Just brighten the car.
7. Ask for a seat. People are sometimes kind enough to offer a seat to the elderly, but I worry that people don’t always ask for one when they need one. Pregnant, feeling sick, injured? Ask for some help.
8. Move around, stretch, wiggle your extremities. Why can’t this be a time to loosen up?
9. Read an amazing book and let everyone see the jacket cover. You never know who’ll check it out. And if someone is checking it out, ask them if they’ve read it.
10. Wear awesome pins, t-shirts, hats, any kind of art. Looking awesome on the subway makes a big difference. Every car is an art gallery, so make yours the most interesting.
10*. Share your ideas for how you’ve transformed your commute into one you love.
